WHAT IS YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE?
Another way to improve relationships and, possibly more importantly, to save your marriage, is to learn what your love language is. Most of us aren’t aware that there is such a thing as a “Love Language” but there is. We have all felt and enjoyed the whirlwind emotions when we first met our loved ones, often referred to as the honeymoon period. Most of us have learned that this beautiful time in our relationship doesn’t last forever and we wonder what happened, where it went to, sometimes even doubting that we were ever in love when we know our feelings have changed so dramatically. We see fault in everything our loved one does (or doesn’t do), or says. They can’t do right for doing wrong!
In NLP terms we all have different ways to communicate, we have a preference in how we communicate (known as VAK, visual, auditory, kinesthetic), but most of us are generally unaware of this. In addition to these modes of communication, Dr Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages (3,000,000 copies sold worldwide), has had a hugely successful career as a Marriage Guidance Counsellor and presenting seminars on marriage and family life. During his career, spanning over 30 years, he discovered what he calls the 5 different languages of love which when taught and used by his clients has transformed their relationships, even marriages many years old and many where the couples were about to call it a day. Once you learn the different ways, not only how YOU communicate but also the choice of language preferred by your boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband, partner, spouse etc. It’s not difficult to find out, just a few questions or completing a simple questionnaire, then you are all set to save your relationship/marriage, to rekindle the love you once felt and want to feel again!
How valuable is your husband, wife, or partner to you? Do you want your children, family and friends to know that you really do love and care about them? Do you want to learn how to improve your relationships or save your marriage? Then book your Mind Harmony 4 Life holiday and we will share our relationship secrets with you!
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